COMING HOME TOGETHER

A 6-Month Private Couples Coaching Experience with Lisa & John DeJarnette

Come home to yourself. Come home to each other. Come home to God.

Sometimes a marriage doesn’t need to be “fixed.” It needs to be understood, tended to, and given room to reconnect.

You may love each other deeply. You may have built a family, a career, a home, and a life together. And yet somewhere along the way, you may have become disconnected, reactive, exhausted, stuck, or simply so busy managing life that there hasn’t been enough time or space to really tend to us.

Coming Home Together is a six-month private couples coaching experience designed to create that space.

This is not a promise to “fix” your marriage. It is a guided process to help you better understand the marriage you’ve created, recognize the patterns pulling you apart, practice reconnection and repair, and intentionally build the marriage you want to come home to.

The Goal

Our goal is to help you develop:

More clarity. More ownership. More connection. A shared way forward.

Rather than focusing only on what your partner needs to change, we help each of you become more aware of your own story, strengths, triggers, patterns, needs, and responsibilities—and learn how those individual pieces interact within your relationship.

From there, we help you practice new ways of communicating, navigating conflict, repairing disconnection, creating boundaries, expressing needs, strengthening friendship and intimacy, and building rhythms that support the marriage you want.

The H.O.M.E. Framework

The program follows four interconnected stages:

H — Honestly See Where You Are
We begin with awareness and assessment. Together, we explore your stories, strengths, stress, attachment, relational cycle, pain points, and goals. The goal isn't to assign blame. It's to develop a clearer picture of where you are and how you got here.

Deliverable: Your Marriage Map

O — Own Your Part
Healthy change begins with ownership. We explore triggers, emotional regulation, boundaries, resentment, responsibility, repair, and the patterns each partner may unintentionally contribute to.

Deliverable: Your Ownership Plan

M — Move Toward Each Other
Once you can recognize the patterns pulling you apart, we work on practicing what moves you toward one another: healthier communication, listening, navigating conflict, expressing needs, strengthening friendship and intimacy, and intentionally turning toward each other.

Deliverable: Your Connection & Repair Toolkit

E — Envision & Establish Home
Finally, we look forward. What kind of marriage do you want to create together? What values, roles, faith, fun, purpose, warning signs, and sustainable rhythms will help you protect and nurture it?

Deliverable: Your Marriage Roadmap

Your Six-Month Road Home

Each month builds intentionally on the one before it:

Month 1 — Where Are We?
Your story, strengths, pain points, and goals.

Month 2 — The Pattern
Understanding your cycle, triggers, and family-of-origin influences.

Month 3 — My Part
Ownership, boundaries, responsibility, and repair.

Month 4 — Us Again
Communication, friendship, intimacy, and turning toward one another.

Month 5 — The Marriage We Want
Vision, values, rhythms, faith, fun, and purpose.

Month 6 — Staying Home
Recognizing warning signs, practicing repair, establishing rituals, and creating your 90-day roadmap.

The result isn't a “perfect marriage.” The aim is a couple who better understands themselves and each other, has practical tools for navigating difficult moments, and has a clearer shared vision for how they want to live and love together.

6-Month Transformational Life Coaching Package

Investment: $6500 (or 6000 paid in full – save 10%)
Flexible Payment Option: $1100 a month over 6 months